Welcome to a new series on Tiny Bubbles, called Social Graces. Here, we hope to inform you on some basic wedding etiquette directed specifically towards the wedding guest. The bride and groom have spent a great deal of time, money and thought into crafting their perfect day, as a guest you want to not only enjoy this celebration with them, but respect and honor the formality. I believe that no one intends to act in poor taste, they are simply misinformed of the proper protocol. I hope that through these tips, you will learn the accurate behavior to make you the perfect wedding guest for years to come!

{the invitation}
The invitation is addressed to the guests that are invited to the wedding. Those who are listed on the outer envelope(or inner envelope if there is one) are those who the hosts intended to invite. If children, or an “and guest” are not listed, this means they are not invited to attend. Many couples are limited in space at their venue or with their budget which prevents them from inviting everyone they would like. As a planner, I know that getting the guest list to the desired number is one of the very hardest parts of planning a wedding. You put the hosts in a very uncomfortable position when responding for more seats than were allocated for you, and your added guest could take the place of someone who didn’t make their list due to restraints. It is also important to be mindful of the RSVP deadline. Many couples have to give their caterer a count and start assigning tables, so try to be prompt with your response.
Stay tuned next week for our tips on Wedding Gifts!
{image: Melissa Schollaert}